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 Name» Danielle/エリ
Age» 24
Location» Colorado, USA
Likes» Cute stuff, fashion (lolita, gyaru, otome, etc.), Rilakkuma/Korilakkuma, J-rock (especially An Cafe), Utada Hikaru, Kyary Pamyu Pamyu, K-pop (especially Big Bang), traveling, pugs

Hi, I’m Danielle. I’m a university student in my last year of majoring in International Studies. I have a part-time job at my university's ESL program helping students with whatever they need, translating for Japanese students, doing office work, and that sort of thing.
I've been dating an amazing man from Osaka, Japan for a little over a year and a half and am madly in love with him~ You'll usually see me refer to him as "boyfran", and rarely by his actually name (Sou).

Please read my FAQ before asking me any questions!
I’m more than happy to answer pretty much anything else – ask me with your username (non-anon) if you’d like the reply to be private.

I’m pretty friendly (although a little bit awkward), so feel free to chat with me anytime! I’m always happy to meet people with similar interests~
frozenkeira asked: Otome Kei! I want to wear otome kei on my uncle's wedding what kind of outfit will be better?

Because it’s a wedding, you should wear something on the more toned-down side - no super busy prints or really eye-catching colors.

A dress like this, perhaps:

I think it also would be wise to double-check with your uncle/his fiance first if the outfit you’ve chosen is appropriate.

And every wedding is different - some brides are super picky about what their guests wear, others could not care less. I don’t have a lot of experience attending weddings, though; my most recent was my brother’s, and I was a bridesmaid, so my outfit was chosen for me by my sister-in-law.

uh
yeah, since I don’t have a lot of experience, I’ll answer this publicly so others can chime in haha. 

Anonymous asked: Yeah being ill is like a real pain. So many doctors treat your illness like bullshit and then when you find out whats wrong you just think I TOLD YOU SO like there is actually something wrong with me! And im definitely going to tell him about this. He needs to fix his body clock like seriously so this is like golden information hahaha but no really I think this is gonna help. You're really sweet! Thanks alot ^^!

FOR REAL.
And not just doctors, but people in general..! I literally waved my sleep study report in my Japanese professor’s face like “I TOLD YOU. I’M NOT LAZY. MY BRAIN WAVES PROVE IT OK.” (…she’s been my prof and student org faculty advisor for 5 years and has been a total bitch to me on more than one occasion.) 

Not a problem! :3
I know how terrible it can be, so I’m more than happy to use my experience to help alleviate the suffering of others, even just a little bit. 

Anonymous asked: since highschool, I had a really difficult time staying awake in class. This became an issue, and was then really embarrassing for me when I had a private instructor come to my house and I would fall asleep right infront of her. Now that I am in college, the same thing happens: my eyes start feeling heavy, my handwritting becomes illegible, and I blank out for a few seconds until I finally fall asleep even during interesting lessons. Am I just lazy, or do you think it's something else?

It sounds like possible narcolepsy to me, but I’m just someone who has researched sleep disorders extensively and has one, not a professional, obviously c’:
It could also be that you have a sleep disorder like sleep apnea or restless leg syndrome that is inhibiting you from getting quality sleep at night and therefore making you sleepy during the day.

Check out that narcolepsy link for other symptoms of the disorder - you may find it includes things you never thought were linked to your falling asleep uncontrollably!

I would definitely see about talking to a doctor about this - they will probably refer you to a sleep specialist and/or neurologist.

Anonymous asked: Okay I think im gonna tell him to go to the doctor again soon. He ALWAYS gets sleep paralysis too. Like its that and his body clock is so messed up like he would wake up at like 9pm after sleeping at 7pm and cant go back to sleep. but we dont know why and doctors treat it like bullshit! Also Im glad to have found you cause I couldnt find anyone who has serious sleep issues ever so no one understands! Its like something that can mess up your life but people dont even know that its THAT major.

The whole process leading up to my diagnosis was a pain in the butt and took way too long, but it was worth it in the end. (even though my diagnosis completely sucks and so does treatment haha. but at least I have a name for it now and proof I’m not faking it/just lazy!)

Also, before I saw my sleep specialist, my sleep cycle was incredibly irregular and therefore exacerbated symptoms to the point where I thought the irregularity WAS a symptom (it kind of is, but not as much as I thought initially) - so in the meantime, I’d suggest to your brother to begin practicing good sleep hygiene. It’ll take about 3 weeks to get a more regular sleep cycle down, but it really is necessary to attempt it very seriously. If he’s still having issues even with good sleep hygiene, doctors will be more likely to listen to him (this is from experience).
In addition to what the link suggests, he should also set aside 30-60 minutes before his set bedtime to do a relaxing activity that he enjoys. He should make it something to look forward to daily. Some suggestions my sleep specialist gave: taking a bubble bath, drinking a cup of tea, reading a book, doing a craft. This gets your brain ready for “sleep mode” - it teaches it that right after the activity, it’s time for bed. You’d be surprised at how trainable your brain really is!

Sleep and wakefulness is definitely something people take completely for granted! It’s a fundamental aspect of life, and people don’t even realize its importance until something in the system gets screwed up :’c

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Anonymous asked: About your sleeping problem, has anything happened like you would go to sleep and wake up an hour later but you couldn't sleep until you were seriously tired? Or was it only you would sleep too much and couldn't control it? I have a sibling who does the 1st thing so I was hoping it was connected to your problem so I could check that out cause its been a problem!

I’ve had some issues with insomnia, but it’s generally more due to my severe anxiety - I’ll fall asleep very quickly, wake up due to anxiety, then fall asleep again very quickly. Obviously the fragmented sleep very much exacerbates my EDS though :’c

There are lots and lots of different sleep disorders (some very common), as well as so many other health issues that can affect sleep, so I think it would be worth it for your sibling to go see a general practitioner, and then possibly get a referral to a specialist if the GP can’t “figure things out”.
Sleep is arguably THE most important facet of our health, so it’s super important to get the best quality you can! 

rainedragon:

Angelic Pretty DRINK ME Series (Alice themed) snaps from the Gothic Lolita Bible #48 Photoshoot from AP Tokyo’s blog.
 
Items:
One piece (¥ 26,040)
Jumper skirt (¥ 24,990)
Skirt (¥ 16,590)
Blouse (¥ 14,490)
Cutsew (¥ 9,345)
Barrette (¥ 4,095)
Bow Clips TBD)
OTK Socks (¥ 2,310)
 
Colors: Pink, sax, beige, lavender

very very excited to see better photos of this *u*

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mk-commodities:

We actually celebrated a whole entire year of being in business in March, but my schedule has just been too insane until now…so without further ado:

Mint Kismet Commodities 1st Anniversary Giveaway

To celebrate a year of being in business, we’ll be giving one lucky winner:
$10 in store credit to use in our Storenvy
free shipping (up to $10 worth) when you use your store credit

To enter (plus to read the fine print), click HERE~!

This giveaway begins on May 19th and ends at midnight MDT on June 20th.
A Tumblr account is not necessary to enter, and the giveaway is open worldwide.

What is Mint Kismet Commodities?
MKC is a store dedicated to providing the latest cute goods from Japan at affordable prices. It is run by a couple in love, separated by an ocean - all profit goes towards the costs of reuniting us!
We can guarantee 100% that everything in our shop is authentic merchandise from Japan, because that’s where everything is bought before coming to you! You will never be disappointed by receiving knock-offs from China.

A big, big thank you to all our loyal customers for helping us continue to provide our service this past year~
We wouldn’t be here without you!

LEXY BOUGHT OUR TICKETS :DD
officially 3 months and 13 days until An Cafe live (again)!

LEXY BOUGHT OUR TICKETS :DD

officially 3 months and 13 days until An Cafe live (again)!

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PaRuRu & Milky@ LARME 004

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